FILLING OUT THE "MY IMAGO" FORM To complete each partner's "My Imago" sheet, ask the couple for each partner's "Finding Your Imago" and "Childhood Frustrations/Positive Memories of Childhood" sheets, which, again, they should have done for homework. If they have only written down a few things, you may want to take a minute to help them come up with more traits, frustrations, and so on. The more they've written down, the better.