My wife and I have been happily married for 19 years. As we look back on our journey together, one question often comes up: who noticed the other first? We both claim each other as the one who started the chase. We both have some proof such as letters, pictures, and stories recalled from memory, but neither of us has definitive proof show who was the suitor or pursuer. Of course, such discussions are never meant to have a conclusion. They are just excuses to bring back sweet memories of the past two decades.