All great love transforms death into new life, turns your world upside-down, shatters callousness and indifference, frees you to treat people more decently and humanely, and bids you to choose a life of struggle with a smile and style, and greet the worms after our time in the world with a warm welcome of “I lived, I loved, I laughed, and I went down swinging like Muhammad Ali and Ella Fitzgerald!”